I understand that you are living together and to have him move out again would be horrible. I am speaking of before he moved back in. If you can co-habitat in the house and feel good about it then great, I know that I could not.
I hope it all works out for you LL.
Tina
M 14 years, tog 20. 3 kids D-13, S-11, S-9. Bomb dropped June 1/02, sep Aug 11, living with OW since Oct/02.