You are a wise and courageous woman. You know what needs to be done. If it doesn't work you'll find something else. h is the loser if he misses out on a friendship with you. I know my life is so much richer bacause of you and your friendship.
Have you read the book "Getting Back Together"? You may like it. I also heard "Second Honeymoon" is good. They may or may not help your sitch.
