The Good, the Bad, and the Funny 4

[mkultra]

I think Neph is spot on again! My H was always completely good in many people's eyes. So this is a tragedy. He was put on a pedestal because one brother died and the other brother disowned the family. My H is the golden child, the loyal one, the sweet one.

He eschewed his family for fostering an air of infidelity regarding his elderly aunt. She is Catholic and literally waited for her H of 50 years to die. Many of the women just told her to go out and find a man, why did she have to wait for her H to die to take a lover. My H's uncle was mildly retarded but this aunt had such poor English, she did not realize until she came to the U.S. My H absolutely did not condone his aunt breaking her vows under any circumstance. His aunt never even consumated her marriage, these old folks lived like sibling companions, but my H said that there is no excuse for anyone to ever cheat on their vows. He died around the time my H's MLC began. The MLC forum mentions a death of a prominent relative can trigger a MLC. I also believe my H's ideals of love and tradition has somehow created a monster. Because he was so extreme in his views of fidelity, he has just gone to the opposite extreme. Like when ministers of faith cheat. They just don't cheat, they cheat in extreme scandals with gay prostitutes and such!!!. Yeah.