I'm still doing it

[mkultra]

It sucks to obsess over OW so don't. Even if she were f'in Angelina Jolie, no one can stand that ho anyways. I am so kidding.

I like to think of Olivia DeHaviland in Gone With The Wind. Scarlett was always making googly eyes at Ashlee. What a slut. And Olivia DeHavilland just said, "Well, she is so beautiful, of course men are going to pay attention to her." Such a classy wife. It is extremely difficult for a WS to leave a happy spouse. Remember that. In his speech, he has mentioned that this supposed OP is his friend. Act as if, give the benefit of the doubt, think positive, show forgiveness, and take responsibility for your failure in the R stuff, too. Heis closer to home than you think so keep DBing. You are doing so great, do not break trust with snooping or obsessing. Reread DR if you have too.

I have a feeling in the real world, you are all calmness and grace. here, you are just venting about what may be going through his head. But let's go with Occam's Razor way of thinking. he needs to eat, sleep, and feell like he belongs somewhere. Show him the path home through food, love, and family. That is what it is all about. OK sex, too. But that is for MCs and Piecing. I could not do it with my H.