Boy, did I need to read your posts so thank you. I started to feel like I was going out of my mind thinking I was making too big a deal out if.
So, I sent XH an email. Drew the line with emails being read. Told him what I thought about OW. Said obviously her intenetions towards me are not in good faith nor the kids.
I said to him she encourages you to trash me so she can feel good about herself. That perpetual cycle is dangerous for the kids.
And, I told him she was psychtotic and to keep her away from the kids as she feel entitled to violate his privacy, my privacy and the kids.
This was the clincher..
XH brought her kid here this weekend. XH sent him to the door to knock and get our kids for the night.
OW's 5 year old son came to the door I let him in.
I gave him a hug. He is only a kid and it's not his fault his mom is a skank.
Anyway, sent this to Xh..
"When Ow's S came to the my door this weekend I gave him a hug.
When OW was around our D she called me a f-ing bit**
See the difference"
The response I got form him.
"Put your name in the place where you put OW and you would be accurate..you are the drama queen.. 1. Do not give me your opinions anymore 2. Never say the OW's name 3 Go f**k yourself.
Nice, huh?
So I sent back I am sorry you feel that way.
My L is going to get a copy of the harrassment and how it is impossible to correspond with him via email. Actually, I think XH likes it that she is in the middle as he sees a catfight and thrives on it. Also, it gives him an excuse to talk to me about the kids in person as OW is a snoop.
Whatever..
I am pulling myself out of the equation and I am done with him playing the "kid" card for a reaction..
I am going to fax my L a letter about his threats, OW's behavior and my desire to not have the kids around all this dysfunction..
Okay, time for me to go to sleep..
Geez, this was a sucky month..I thought XH was supposed to go away and stop bugging me now that he has his D.
Well, maybe it gets to him that I got the house I went back to school Got my grad degree Have the greatest new boyfriend in the world the kids love The new boyfriend is even nice to XH (he must HATE that) And I got a job as a college professor..
What a stoop..
He must feel sick to his stomach each time he gets the kids and sees how alive the house is again..
I wish we could all just freakin get along..
It is so much easier..
But is it bad to say I hope that the RAt chokes on her fishbone tonight..
***sorry for all of the typos..I am cross-eyed tired and embarrassed to say I teach English..lol
