I talked to the lawyer, he said most likely the court will divide the assets 50/50. This is disappointing because I saved a lot of money over the years, of course, she has the right to part of it because she paid the bills etc which allowed me to save the money but still I made quite a bit more salary than her so 50/50 means she walks away with free money. Of course, the big piece of this is my daughter, so that's my priority money can be made even if it sets me back 7 years.
Now STBXW hasn't said a word to me about any of this or the divorce in general. She just emailed me when she filed for the divorce and said we could talk about it if I wanted to. I didn't because if she wanted to talk about it she should've done that before filing.
Anyway, I see her almost every three or four days she's very nice as usual, she even offers to help or casually offer me to stay for dinner once in a while etc. Sometimes I accept because even after all this and a year and a half I still love her and miss her but usually I try to be strong and tell her I have other plans even if I don't.
In a way it might sound that she's manipulating me but inside I feel that she's just unhappy with herself and her life and the whole divorce thing was the outcome of that. I still feel she's a good person inside. Of course I could be totally wrong but that's how I feel.
Anyway, that's the situation with me.
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>
