More Growing and Healing

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OK, one more thing. Frank, I started reading your story. I started at kind of the end. I have a lot of reading to do, but it's painful to read (and I've just started). It's painful because it makes me think that my W and I could divorce too. It plants the thought, and I don't want that thought.

My C has told me that I have been the best example of unconditional love and patience he has seen. And yet, as he told me, it may not keep my M together. She is working her demons out and all I can do is support, give her space, and wait. From the little I've read of your sitch, sounds like you've been there.

In a real sense, it's not about us, or what we do or don't do. It's there journey, and we were lucky enough to get to go on the ride.

I'll read more. give me time. I can be suggestable. When a friend offered the opinion that my W was still seeing the OM, it sent me back. I know that the OM doesn't matter. I know I'm happier not worrying about that. But I couldn't help worrying once my freind said it. Reading your sitch will give me lots to worry about, I fear. I'll have to prepare myself.

I hope your doing well.