lwb has a good point...they have to live with the guilt, right? and no snooping, like you said. snooping is good to get the initial info, but after that, I swear its just shooting yourself in the ass over and over and over. It always just seems to backfire. but oh so hard to give up (trust me, I still slip once in a very blue moon).
give your D a big hug and try to forget about rotten H's for a while.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
