I like this a lot Nephartiti. Do you mind if I use it also?
A lady I know on another forum has the following mantra when she's venting and trying to calm herself down.
CALMBLUEOCEAN CALMBLUEOCEAN.
Hee hee...the more stressed she is, the bigger font she uses.
Sounds like a happy Neph will eventually be more appealing than a clingy OW. It just sucks that you don't know how long it will take....probably longer than we'd all like.