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Basically, I feel like my M is almost certainly headed for a D. If an opportunity for a meaningful attempt at reconciliation arose, I think I would take it. But it's not as easy of a choice as it used to be.

Nomo,
Remember August at dinner in Orlando, how everyone laughed at how done I was, well you have lapped me, my friend! I'm still not dating, so you win the fastest turnaround award.

I even am hoping that W does not decide that she wants to work on the R as I am totally over her and am only here because of the stupid no-fault laws and the kids.

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The systematic search for solutions is tough when the other person seems to be absolutely sleepwalking, only to wake up everyone once in a while to resist.


Yup, not effective either. Just live your life and you will be great.

By the way, Kansas St.??? In Austin??? How does this happen!? I did not see the game (was at UCF game), but if their play calling was similar to the game here, it is no surprise that they lost.

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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