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Does it mean that your H also deserve that without being frustrated with?


yes!!! in one of my earlier threads (back before h came home) I talked about how I would just love for him to be here falling asleep on the couch..that I finally understood he was just tired and that it's ok...just because I never allowed myself the right doesn't mean he shouldn't.

I get frustrated when h falls asleep in the middle of a "talk" I get frustrated when h falls asleep and I want him..but when h falls asleep because he's tired..it's really ok with me as long as there is not a distance between us already. (does that make sense??)

LL