Yes, morgan, scummy. Of all the things he has done in the last 6 months, that is on the top of the list of things that nearly killed me. He barely helped the girls tell me Happy Mothers Day and didn't go to my family function that day either. SIGH
morgan, I like your therapist, I really do. Basically what you are doing now (detaching, being unavailable) is preparing you for war. Meaning if he files. In the meantime, its making you a stronger and better person so when (if? sigh) he comes back, he'll come back to a different person, which is good. Because its you...just...stronger..better. An individual that will know how to make herself happy.
Glad you are status quo tonight. Enjoy your curl up time.