I THINK I MISSED A BIG SIGN :-( Tonight when my wife came over to drop our son off, she was extremely depressed looking and sad. It looked like she had been crying. I asked her if everything was ok, she said she doesn't want to live by herself in the apartment anymore and didn't know what to do. I just kind of rubbed her shoulder and said it would be ok. She drove off and I could kill myself for not telling her to just come home. Should I have been the one to say it in this situation or does she still have to be the one to say it?