LL,
Sounds like your roller coaster is still going full speed ahead, but hang in there, it will start slowing down, but as you told me, things will never be the same as before, you both will change. When I had my A 23 years ago, W left with 2 year old daughter for 6 months. When she finially came home, we had sex the very first night, and have been sleeping in the same bed until now. Somehow it seems different with her A. I'm still at home, and she is gone with OG If my DB'ing works, and she does come home I'm sure she will want to stay away from me until she gets her head right. I don't even know why I'm thinking about that, because she probably isn't "comming home" I'm just dreaming.

NO DATING! I agree, but check this out from "Kevinlost"

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I was lost now I am found.............

my wife woke up from the fog today. After she found out that I was going out on a date wednesday night she freaked out. She broke down. She spent yesterday and today trying to figure out why she was so freaked out by this. She came to the conclussion that she loved me and was really jealous of me dating some one else. I know the journey has just begun to healing my marriage but I am hear to tell you that Db works. My wife told me that she loves me today. I am not being overly optimistic but the woman I fell in love with is back. I am leaving work early today because she wants me to come home and hold her in my arms..
She hit that brick wall when she realized I was moving on with my life without her. All she has talked about this evening is our future together.
I know it will take time to heal and time to forgive but we are in it together. We will win the war against divorce and we will be stronger because of it..



Any hope?

I'll be doing house work all day today, so the place looks nice when W gets here tomorrow. Then who knows what the hell is going to happen then

Tony

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