LL..all your feelings are justified...I don't know the right thing to tell you...I have those stupid feelings myself..we have to keep on with our lives..I talked to myself on the way to the mall...praying for help and strength to get these things out of my thoughts..I sometimes wonder the samt thing, that h is just waiting his 6 mos of seperation..then proceed further..or is the ff still with her new bf or is she too waiting and then she and my h can do their thing...I just get sooooo frustrated as you do. Stop and take a look around..your h came home..he did not have to, hopefully he is making these choices because he wants to. Don't sweat the small things like beds being made..they are not worth it.
Enjoy the night of playing darts..if h wants to talk and starts the talk then talk..otherwise why wreck a good time together
Sue