I sent my H an email I was expecting a bad response from today. I was on tenter hooks when he came home - I even put myself to bed and took a couple of valium. HE was great. he came in and lay next to me and gave me a great big cuddle. 15 months ago that would have been impossible. You have so much going for you husband. you are so caring. Your wife will be much more nervous than you.
(((((HUGS)))))))
saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Don't want to be. I am still at work. I could have left 1/2 hour ago.
Today: Thinking ahead can be daunting ... there's no such thing as a crystal ball, and sometimes when you plan too narrowly, you end up making dangerous assumptions. To avoid the pitfalls of forecasting your life, don't get too tied up in timeframes. Just think about what you want in your life and go about getting it. Recent bad habits are preventing you from expecting the best of yourself ... add more discipline to your life and say no more often. Perfection isn't the goal -- happiness is.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Did you make that up!!!!! That's spookie. It's telling you something. GO HOME. This will not be as bad as you think. By being late your W will know you are nervous. Go home - give your S a great big hug. Ask them both what sort of a day they had. Act natural, act nice. Your W is probably expecting you to come storming in demanding answers. Just be a loving, kind, caring husband. aske her about her office and how she has got on in there today. She might say -"oh, I haven't even had time to turn my PC on today" Then where will you be. Go home.
We are all rooting for you!!
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
I got a phone call from my W when I was about 5 min from home asking me when I would be home she needs to take her mom shopping. I said in about 5 Min. She said ok. I got home and went to the bathroom. When I was walking down the hall I heard my W say loudly, " I'm waiting for you dad to get here so I can tell him what you need to do. When I came around the corner she gave me a pissed off look and then proceeded to tell me how son didn’t get very much home work done and he needed to do this and that. I said ok. She said he was on a break. I asked what time he should start again and she said 4:00. Her voice softened as this conversation took place. Then she said "I'll see ya later" back in her normal day to day voice. After she left she called and told me the chairs did not come today and they will be here tomorrow... I kept a PMA. She was not mad or she would not have said bye or called me about the chairs. BUT...... She was not happy either. I am working with my son right now. I think I am just going to let it go for now. This is the first time I have sent a "love" letter to her in months. All of the other ones were just friendly letters thanking her for dates we went on.
Keep your finger crossed for me.
P.S her "pissed of look" could have been becase my son was not being easy to deal with.
Manuel
Last edited by husband; 10/02/0711:11 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
