Ok guys maybe I phrased that wrong. I don't really care what her motives are, but I do care whether they are honest or not because I do not have time for dishonesty from her. I also think I question her because we are in the middle of this divorce.

Ian

M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09