It's ashame it took the possibility of you filing for D for your H to wake up and join you in the restoring your M. But at the same it sometimes takes that added threat to wake them up.
I am happy to see all the positives happening in your sitch since that happened. I pray that H goes into C with an open mind to restore the M.
Take Care.
PS - I have seen alot of positives in my sitch since V-day. H sent me an i/m earlier this week wanting to know when "we were doing lunch". That is the 1st since the 1st week of December. We had lunch yesterday and everything went fine.
