Right there with you girl!! W has consistently over the last 2 years moved me down the totem pole - supplanting me with her friends (who I now refer to as TF or Toxic Friends).
H needs to look at his priorities - Where does M fit? Where do kids fit? Where does buddie fit? Where does God fit? Maybe a topic for the C to address - certainly not you - H wouldn't listen to your 'spin' on how you see it.
I know for my own M, it will never be a living breathing functional sitch until W realizes how she placed all these other people ahead me - the person she vowed her love and trust to. Don't get me wrong, I don't begrudge W friends, I just feel W let her priorities get a little out of kilter.
