can I just vent for a second...
I get annoyed with h's buddie..they talk every day...always on the cell phone together..buddie calls they shoot the crap for a while while I detain the kiddos for as long as I can...till finally son is trying to climb over the gate to get to h wanting him to play...so finally h gets off the phone giving the buddie the I'll call you back later...he laughs and is cheery when talking to buddie..yes they talk football weather and who knows what. it seems buddie is his new love...he has known buddie since they were kids..but has only recently started to talk to him this often...yes it is good that he has a friend..but this is the buddie that he has taken off on sat night after spending no time with me to go out with...buddie is married but his wife works alot...buddie is a father but only one child who is 11...buddie does not have the same life or current circumstances that h has...

where is my buddie??? I have friends but I don't put them before h.

LL