We do have sex at least once a week, sometimes two or three. I am a HDW, he is a LDH. Our SL at this point is pretty much totally dictated by him, and although it is not totally crap sex, it is not very fulfilling either in frequency or duration.

That sounds like a lot of sex and I do understand your position, it isn't meeting your needs/desires.

I had a dry summer=almost no sex.

I did read your post on newcommers. Sounds like too many X's and relatives around to muddy your new R.

No advice from me but others will post so stick around.