Lisa - It sounds like you have a compulsive philanderer for an H. I'm not sure there is any cure for that, beyond time and some much-needed maturity. Just like the rest of us, you just need to control what you can and take care of yourself. Not so easy when you're taking care of five kids. Since you seem to have to carry most of that responsibility anyway, it might help your sanity if he moved out again.
I wish you well, Larry
(p.s. hi J, 25yearsMLC, my new thread is below)
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