Sue, I thought at one time about trying to contact OW's H because I did not know if the rumor I heard was true about them seeing each other. I just wanted confirmation. He ended up calling me and telling much more than I really cared to know.
So I guess the only reason I would call was to confirm it, if I already knew I wouldn't call in hopes of breaking the "happy couple" up.
Yoyo
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