Piecing. It's like a fork in the Road (which way)?

[Heartbroken]

JAK,

I can relate to you so much - my H has been home and trying too for 3 1/2 mos - I have forgiven him and love him so much I am afraid to get hurt again. He cannot say ILY and he keeps saying he's trying - like it's so hard for him to reconnect. I think he still is not over OW even though he knew it'd never work with her. H sometimes seems like he questions his decision to come back to me - this may be more of my fears...


I know what you mean though- I don't want to be his 2nd choice and I don't want to settle for a loveless (or one-sided love from me) M. I deserve to be loved as fully as I am willing to give love... My H wants to try the Retrouville (SP?) and I will sign us up for a session at the end of the month...I hope this helps us. Will your H consider it? I've heard very good things about the program...

Hang in there I think these WASs need a lot of time to get their heads on straight once they come out of the fog. This affair time period is only a blip in the screen in terms of your lives together - it's not worth throwing it all away (at least so far for me...)

HB