every spouse is different

[Dom R]

"bad things" have usually happened one way or another, when I give my full story online.

i'll try for a brief summary, and see what happens, I guess.

[....]

hmmm. I had it ALL typed up... almost ready to go.... and then got interrupted just before posting. (by a call from my wife, no less!)

I've noticed a trend: when i get interrupted like that, seems like God is looking out for me, and telling me "bad idea".

So, I've "seen what happened", and it would seem to be "dont post about it" sorry.

I'll just say that I miss my wife (and children!!) and would like to be with them all every day; it's up to her whether she wants it to happen.
I'm trying to consistently show her positives, to show that it would be worth it to try.