I agree with the girls. I thought the way Yoyo expressed it was good.

There WAS NOTHING in there to upset here, unless it is the pain that she has caused you. If she is upset by that then that is good because it shows she does not want to hurt you.

You can even say to her that it took you a while to compose the letter so you completely understand if it takes a while for her to come to a considered response. It shows you care husband.

saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength