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What helped you see that it was worth while after you had sort of given up?


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Even with all of his faults I love this man.


There you go.

As you know, you can't force him back to the table and if he won't confront the real deep R issues that you have, you have no choice but to NOT go back. However, talking about your D so that you can stay civil is definately a worthwhile goal. Also think it's worth a shot to call the MC and get that perspective as well.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.