Please, stop focusing on things that you cannot control!!!!
You can't control what he tells her. You can't control what he doesn't tell her. You can't control when he sees her. You can't control what they do together.
Focus on the only thing that you can control: YOU
Mark, This is so true. We all need to heed this advice. We have to realize that something will happen one way or the other. It may be good or it may be bad, but it will happen no matter what we do.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon