Good to hear from you. so, how is the dating scene. This would be much easier for me if we had not kids. It tears my heart out twht this will do to them. The rest of their lives they will have to live with this. I do agree with you, and COG, who first threw it out. My W. is not emotionally all there. I agree that her bahavior has a little, not a lot to do with me.
She found out that her college boyfriend was sleeping with one of her friends, and proceeded to throw all of his early belongings out the second floor of his dormitory room 25 years ago! She has dated guys old enough to be her father, and is currently weirdly attracted to her boss, who by all outward appearances is a happily married 65 year old attorney.
A friend of mine that I wored with once told me "I've never seen anything like it" Hugely insecure covered over by being an absolute steamroller. I can't control it. I really need to work on me, and that's going pretty well. Time and distance...in this case a few thousand miles are really helping. Stop by gain, bud. It's good to hear from you. A guy with a Ph.D who's published stuff....you'll find happiness again, my firend. You're too good of a person.
