At some point you will probably need to reflect on what happened with an eye to making sure it doesn't happen again. I didn't do enough of that. But don't worry about that for now, focus on your M.
Chrome,
I'm sure I do know what happened and how I allowed it to get to that stage. It has actually been less than the 3 month mark and that is why I am trying not to focus on OM. In fact, when I was trying to reply to Cemar, thinking back on OM brought up some memories that triggered some feelings that was tempting me to contact him again. I knew I had to throw on the brakes fast and not travel that path or get anywhere close to it again!
You both may be correct in what you are saying. But, right now, I have to deal with things on the home front that take priority over that. I do appreciate both you and Cemar and your concern and I hope I don't sound like a grouch.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
