Ok so you must be living in my Living room!! I needed to hear this so much. I am SO NEEDY! You are so right every time he has come to me has been when he thinks I have stopped pursuing him.
I am not going dark but I have decided to not initiate any contact myself. When he calls me I will talk.
M 32 H 39 SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4 E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06 On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again. On 08/11/07 Walked out again.
People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"