do you think that saying maybe we should separate is forwarned?
Being the optimist that I am I really didn't expect him to say he was haveing trouble reconnecting. As I said he has been so much more attentive.
It did upset me(didn't let h know it) that he talked to OW about the phone calls but, when I thought about it, I guess he was probobly trying to help put that behind us.
I told him I want him to be happy but that I deserve to also. That was after I mentioned Separating.
Did I mention that he got clingy again after we got home from visiting his Dad?
I sometimes wonder if the stress with his Parents have at least a little to do with him not being able to reconnect in the M.
I guess I should be happy with the fact that he recognises what he needs to work on, as I think a lot of MLC'ers don't.
I really do think it will work out but, if it doesn't it is his loss.
He did by the way let me ask what i wanted with no problems and answered everything.To me that is at least a start.
Mean time GAL
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
