Karen, Several posts ago Corri said that your H reminded her of Honeypot's H, and in a way, she's right. Both you and she were the " wow" girls for your H's...until some version of reality crept in and created disillusionment. HP's H turned to God; my guess is that your H has turned to himself.
She was successful by repeatedly confronting her H in a clear, direct way. I do think that this is what it takes to get through, and I am wondering why you're not going there. Are you afraid you will be seen as demanding? Do you fear ruffling H's feathers too much? What do you think will happen?
Not answering you is not just rude, it's manipulative and controlling. I think you need to get more " inyerface" about the whole thing.
