Get me on a smoother ride....need advice - part 3

[SueS]

Pamar-

Thank you! I know I do need to take a step back and take some deep breaths. I just had a really, really tough time doing that this morning. You are right. R talk right now wouldn't change things.....probably make things more uncomfortable between us. It's only been a week since our last confrontation and I'm sure he's still on high alert from that.

I won't contact OW or her H. It would surprise the heck out of my H though if I did, as he 'd never expect me to do it. However, I know exactly where it would put him.....out the door or at least on the couch, without his ring on and not talking to me.

Sorry about the phone thing. I need to make a pact with lwb that we won't snoop anymore. We both admitted in our threads that we do it more than we should. I almost think that there's a very small chance that H might have seen me peaking yesterday morning. Not sure, but it's possible. Although part of me thinks he would have smacked my hand himself!

I promise to try to raise my spirits up......despite the cloudy, gloomy weather we're having.

Have a good day.

SueS