At the moment she may think she wants to be with him but gradually he is eroding her confidence in him. Him will continue to do that. C'mon, If he can't be nice NOW what is he going to be like in a few weeks. Sexually frustated still and getting nastier. Believe me GISH what your wife see's in him at the moment is not real. She is looking at him through rose tinted glasses. She has to try with him to justify the pain she is causing to you and your son. But really - OM is no option. Act on things you can control. If you go forward with the conversation with OM things will spiral out of your control and gain a momentum of there own.
Look not ONE person on here has said that is a good route to follow. Pease pay heedance to all the advice. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
