The Good, the Bad, and the Funny 4

[mkultra]

I asked my H to leave Easter because his Eldest Aunt refused to have Easter Brunch with my mother and me. It was sureeal! When I pressed him on it , he played dumb. I took a long look at him and wondered what was up with his family. Why were they conspiring against my family? What was up? Why did he not put me first and protect me? Knowing that our tenth anniversary was looming in the next month, I just could not take it any more and asked him to move out.

I still never found out what happened but that Aunt kisses my A## now that she sees it was my H who was being disrespectful. My in laws thought the separation was about me because I thought my H was a loser for "working in a bar, being poor, uneducated and being skinny". Now they know there are two sides to the break up. I recruited them because he got assaulted at the bar and was sleep deprived. That is why I wanted him to find another job. I did not even know or suspect an affair. I saw his weight loss and thought he was ill. I had no idea it was in vogue with emo kids. I NEVER gave a hoot that he did not have a degree, I cared that he lied about taking classes when he was not. His actions were bad, but his deceit was worse, IMHO.

My H's MLC was probably brought on by this cycle of insecurity. He would cuss at me and I would stop sleeping with him, so he cussed more, and I got turned off more. Soon enough, we had a sex starved marriage.