I'm in your shoes. Listen to everyone about the pursuing. Stop, you'll drive your W away. If I had given my W the space she wanted earlier, I might be in piecing. Your W has heard you. She knows you want to save your M. Everytime you restate it to her, to use my W's metaphor, and I quote, "when you talk about us, it's like fingernails on a blackboard." Stop. Focus on you. Don't be like me.
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My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY