My "This is under newcomers" is locked - URGENT

[Startingover2]

I wouldn't go ahead with this plan. I would use it, like someone said above, when you are ready to end the marriage. All I can see coming out of you taking OM to court is your W feeling like she is forced to break this off......do you really want her to come back to you because she feels like she 'has to'? I guarantee it won't make her love you any more....it will probably do the opposite.