Thanks for the encouragement mkultra. I will have to check the Homer MacDonald book out. Oh yeah, I failed to mention that havve already signed the D papers but initially agreed to wait 90 days until filing. I had hoped that time and space would make her "see the light." I told her that if her mind was made up that she wanted a divorce then we need to go ahead and file (yeah, that was a mistake and realized it shortly thereafter). She stated that she wanted the divorce but to date, the papers remain unfiled. Talk about being on the edge of a cliff. Her sister states that my wife is still going back and forth and is unsure. Perhaps the wife is trying to act tough to me. I will continue to chill until.....
