Mojo, some of it depends on the guy's attitude, too. There are ways for a guy to say "bet you can't resist my buff bod" that are a turn off, and ways for a guy to say "I just read the latest Jane Austen novel and loved it" that are a turn on.
Think of the character Noel on Frasier (the Trekker). When a guy says it from a place of low confidence, looking for validation, NOT really interested in fcuking you but just looking to feel good about himself-- THAT can be a turn off.
