I understand why you are asking Sandi the questions you are asking, but I think those kinds of questions are best pondered when there has been sufficient elapsed time after the A. Sandi is ONLY at 3 months. At 3 months she is most likely still fighting to expunge those impulses.
Sandi,
At some point you will probably need to reflect on what happened with an eye to making sure it doesn't happen again. I didn't do enough of that. But don't worry about that for now, focus on your M.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
