Thank you everyone. I want to make sure I am clear. The ONLY THING I WANT OUT OF THIS IS MY WIFE. I do NOT want to sue anyone. The only reason I even thought about this is to get HIM to break it off with her. I'm just trying to push him away, I would NEVER really try to sue him. Just want to plant it in his head. She's already felt hurt and pizzed off about some of his comments towards her and she says she sometimes feels she shouldn't bother with him. I thought because they were starting to have disagreements that it would be an oppourtune time to throw a monkey wrench in his plans. I LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK and I thought this may be a way. But I'm glad everyone is telling me what to watch out for because I'm clouded by emotion.