Truly Piecing once and for all!

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HB

I was just reading over you sit, and we are very similar, although h didn't move out.
But we had an on going issue with ow, right up to July of this year. He just couldn't seem to shake her it was on and off for along time.
We had been on a trip to disney and the day after our return h told me he had taken up with her again, and couldn't stay.
I basically pointed out that he needed to grow up and stop being so selfish, and that I wouldn't stop him leaving, but he should think carefully about what he was throwing it away, and for what he was throwing it away for.
And something just seemed to click, he said he wanted me and the kids, and we have been on the right track since.
But I can relate to you trust issues, giving your heart to him again, I was feeling the same way, right up to our retrouvaille weekend.
Since that weekend I have removed the lock from my heart and am giving it back, on the weekend you are told alot about love being a choice, as is forgivness, and I just had to make that choice and once I truly did, it seemed to make all the difference!