Would you want OW's H to call you if you were in the dark?
He isn't going to forget that you know, just because you don't bring it up.
lwb- Yes, I would want OW's H to call me if I were in the dark. In fact, I've wondered many times if I'll walk out of work or pick up my phone and OW's H will be there. We've only been around each other about 3 times, but we got along. I'm sure OW's H knows our last name, but I'm not sure if he remembers who I work for or even how he'd find me. I've wondered if he's aware, has he ever thought about contacting me or trying to find me. And maybe if he does know, he's thinking the same thing.....why cause more pain!
And to your other point. I know that H isn't going to forget that I know just because I don't bring it up. Sometimes I just get the feeling that our S's think......oh, she'll deal with it.
Yes, Rules of Engagement. We were both laughing at it last night. Perfect for us to be watching it together.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
