Dazed,

Hang in there. I've been separated for nine months now and struggle with the same questions that you have. While my WAW is not stating that she wants a divorce, she does say that it's unlikely that we will get back together. She seems content with being separated and scared to make any permanent decision.

Respect her need for space, don’t come off as clingy or needy, and work on yourself. Get out of the apartment and do something. Meet some new people. Personally, I wouldn’t date. That can just shift your focus from DBing.

You are not alone.


Me-46;W-42
Together 23 yrs Married 16
S11 S8 S6
02/10/03 Her 1st affair
10/01/06 Sep Bomb
01/01/07 Sep Begins
03/09/07 Her 2nd affair

My Sitch