I did things I'm not proud of and had rather forget about. I'm having a hard time forgiving myself and I refuse to dwell on what took place between me and the OM.
I think that's the best attitude to take. Forget about OM. think about what first attracted your husband to you.
Although since you posted that... a bit of light flirting and teasing towards your H couldnt hurt either, i would think
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle