The post session, I know in our sessions, some people have come on there own when the other spouse can't make it, so if your h would be willing that is always an option, and then he can dicuss it with you.
I can only speak of my own experiance, my h and I definately didn't have an emotional connection, and haven't had one for many years, and I can say that the weekend has definately given us that! I don't think that we have really had such a strong connection as we do now...so hopefully it will give you the same, it may not happen quickly, but you will have a different openess. Because your h is willing to do the weekend and it seems that he wants to for him, then thats half the battle, which will make it alot better, because my H was the same....
I know how you feel, it will still be hard, on the weekend I was slipping back alittle thinking I just can't do this, that there is so much damage and hurt...but I quickly work through this now and it doesn't stay with me like it use to.
So go into this with an open mind and heart, and you will only reap rewards from the weekend!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
