MJ, I feel like setting up with you a Cyrano De Bergerac ( sp) type scenario where you could whisper me the lines when my H comes up with lines like that,lol. Putting in in your lingo, I find I still have too much bunny relative to monkey. I'm mionkey disabled, and I need help!
The reason I am put off by the buff comments is that my H's 3-ness tends to overwhelm me...the need for validation and admiration starts to feel narcissitic to me, and I get put off. So instead of giving some WOA, I end up not giving any, which then fuels his need for more validation.
I do think that introverts and extroverts can help balance one another, if they don't kill each other first! Even my kids are happy to have a reprieve from my H.
As far as activities, I feel I have an interesting life, but I tend to take one activity at a time and focus on it intently, where my H makes my head spin in circles. Right now I am starting up a biz with my psychologist college friend and it's quite exciting. I guess I view his distraction as immature, and I also have to deal with this trait in my son.
I really like when you tell the details of your convos with GP; it's like getting a tutorial. I don't know if you remember, but we joined the board around the same time, and in our first interaction you were helping me with BJ technique,lol.
Hope you had fun with GP...by the way, I don't feel like re-reading your thread, why are we calling him GP?
