Didn't want to hijack CVA's thread. I am hanging in here. H has taken off rings, thrown in the towel and is now actively out there looking for dates. I found this incredibly strange since he never wanted a physical relationship with me. Wondering how this will work out with someone else? Can't imagine they would stick around too long.
Anyway. I am just treading water. Continuing with my IC. Hoping H will go back to MC. We have experienced role reversal. I was the WAW because of his issues but now he doesn't really want me back and is moving on. I still want to work on the my so I think I have become an LBS of sorts. Anyway giving it some time. Focusing on me. Trying to get out there an GAL. Been turning down dates and what not. Trying to keep things very casual with men. But once they figure out no dating etc seem to lose interest. Been connecting with old friends since there isn't any expectations.
I am looking forward to getting some in the future though!
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.