Poor D6, poor poor thing. I feel so bad for her. I'm glad she got it out though, and I'm glad you were there to give her the support she needs. I am thinking of a lot worse names for your H right now... Nope, I'll be good and not utter them.
Don't beat yourself up for telling him off. I think they need to hear truth once in a while. Plus, you were doing it for D6, not for you.
One question. When did you tell him you wanted a D? I've gotten the "You kicked me out" thing before. Plus it was thrown at me that I went to the lawyer. They go and start R's w/OP. Then they justify it by the actions we take after the fact? OK.
I have been thinking about all the rotten stuff lately too, btw. I don't know if it's rewriting or merely selective memory.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9